Inhibitions and erection difficulties can be the result of stress, anxiety or even hidden shame or guilt. A fear of intimacy, or even commitment phobia, could be a considerable factor, too. Hypnosis can be a very helpful tool in the treatment of such problems.
Once you have checked with your doctor physical causes have been excluded, and provided the premature ejeculation isn’t related to substance use, (see OCD/ Obsessions) contacting a hypnotherapist/ hypno-analyst could help. Rest assured your case will be dealt with sensitively and in complete confidence by Georgina Block at the Parklands Hypnotherapy Clinic in Kettering.
Personal and intimate issues are surprisingly common in both men and women, and no-one need feel embarrassed. Some of the issues Georgina has successfully helped are listed below:-
Premature ejaculation/ ejeculation (PE)
Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual dysfunction especially in men younger than 40 years old. Premature ejaculation is the persistent experience of ejeculating too quickly (coming too quickly) with hardly any sexual stimulation. Premature ejaculation occurs before the man wants it to, either before or during sex or before penetration. This can cause distress to both partners. Hypnotherapy could help with feelings of distress and lack of confidence resulting from PE.
Premature ejaculation can lead to a lack of confidence, low moods, sense of failure, low self-esteem, helplessness and other emotional and relationship issues. Problems ejeculating may also be triggered or aggravated by issues such as guilt, fear, and performance anxiety about sex, especially in the inexperienced partner or with partners new to each other.
Hypnotherapy could help with the feeling experienced as a result of Impotence
Also known as Male Erectile Disorder or Erectile dysfunction, impotence is where men find it difficult to get an erection, or cannot maintain an erection during sex. This can lead to feeling like failure, frustration, feelings of inadequacy, feelings of rejection and feeling ‘on the spot’. Hypnotherapy could help with these feelings
Fetishism can develop from early childhood experiences, in which an object was associated with a particularly powerful form of sexual arousal or gratification, or from later childhood and adolescence and the conditioning associated with masturbation activity. Studies show that fetishists often have poorly develop social skills, are isolated in their lives and have a diminished capacity for establishing intimacy. A child who is the victim or observer of inappropriate sexual behaviors learns to imitate and is later reinforced for the behaviour.
Compensation models suggest that these individuals are deprived of normal social sexual contacts and thus seek gratification through less socially acceptable means. In the far more common cases, involving males, the patterns suggest that causes stem from doubts about ones own masculinity, potency, and a fear of rejection and humiliation. By his fetishistic practices and the mastery over an inanimate object, the individual apparently safeguards himself and also compensates for some of his feelings of inadequacy. Hypnotherapy could help those who wish to eliminate their fetish from their lives and it could help restore or create their desire for a straightforward sexual relationship.
Hypnotherapy could help with the feeling experienced as a result of Frigidity
Technically known as Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder. Loss of sex drive, lack of interest in sex or low libido can cause frustration and problems within a relationship. One partner (often female but not always) avoids sexual intercourse, avoids sexual thoughts, has no desire for sex etc.
Treatment for sexual problems
Sexual problems are common, respond very well to hypnotherapy treatment and are nothing to feel embarrassed about. Georgina could help at the Parklands Hypnotherapy Clinic where many men and women have benefited from therapy.
Many people are surprised and often disbelieving (some are even hostile) to the fact that homosexuality is not always an unavoidable state. If you have same sex attraction which you feel you would prefer not to have, hypnotherapy can help. It will not change your natural state but if the tendency has developed as a result of unwanted events such as dominating influence or abuse, it can help to restore you to the status quo, if you so wish. This can also apply to gender dysphoria in some cases.
All consultations are conducted with confidentiality and privacy in mind. Please do not hesitate to ‘phone or email me at my Parklands Hypnotherapy Clinic to make an appointment for a Free Chat first information about these or any other symptoms and treatments.